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Getting The Love You Want

12 months ago

The girls discuss the book, Getting The Love You Want, by Harville Hendrix. The book offers insight into what we look for in a partner and why, how we can effectively navigate difficult situations in our relationships, and why self-love and self-awareness are vital to a successful partnership. They also share personal experiences about what they’ve been attracted to and turned off by in past relationships. This episode was sponsored by FEALS, Function of Beauty, Care/of, and Helix For 50% off your first order, go to “TAKECAREOF.COM/SELFHELPLESS 50” and enter code “SELF HELPLESS 50” Find your perfect mattress at Go to to let them know we sent you, and to get 20% off your order. And go to to become a member and get 50% automatically taken off your first order with free shipping. See for privacy information.

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